Engaged: Libby & John in Lakeland

Today's engagement session by Jordan Weiland Photography is one of those that transports you to another place. In this case, to the gorgeous Lake Parker Park in Lakeland, to witness the sweet love that a beautiful couple has for each other... along with some seriously gorgeous light!

From Jordan: Libby and John have been dating for three years and are getting married this June in Lakeland. They've spent the last year of their relationship apart, her in Nepal for the summer and him in California at Bethel this past Fall and Spring. Their relationship has involved travel, letters, maps and long distances and they can't wait to get married and have their intimate ceremony this summer to celebrate their love with family and friends.

John grew up in Lakeland, and Libby moved there for school; they met in college. We asked Libby how they met: We met in an apartment that I shared with a friend named Ali. John knew her from school, but I had no idea who he was. John and Ali were going to go to dinner with other friends, but she wanted to shower and change. I sat there at the dining room table with a pile of twizzler wrappers on one side of my computer, and an unopened pile on the other side. I was in sweats, glasses, and told John I was taken because I didn't want to deal with it. He thought about me all through dinner, and said my name out loud on accident. Second time, I had grandma curlers in my hair. The third time, we were inseparable.

The couple built a strong bond through their shared faith, their belief in each other as "powerful" and independent people, and their ability to communicate well with each other. Says Libby, John does what he says he will, plays soccer amazingly well, and has nice calves (spoken like a true fiancée right?). He is mellow, and continually amazes me with his strength, stability, and joy. Everywhere he goes, leadership follows him, and his heart is to continually change the cultures around him for good. Meanwhile, I grew up all over the place, and moved to Lakeland to go to school (and a lot of family was here). I did dance, messed around with volleyball, and eventually decided that my heart was for traveling. I embarked on mission trips to Africa and Nepal, and have taught the last year at All Saints' Academy in Winter Haven while John is in California at Bethel School of Ministry. John and I mesh. The extremes of who we are have ended up in a perfect balance that continually works together, and occasionally pushes the other outside of their comfort zone. I like travel, he never felt the urge. Suddenly, we are ending up in California. I like hideously bright colors, he is more a neutral guy, and ba-bam, suddenly I appreciate and go after hues other then florescent.

Libby also told us the story of their engagement: We have an odd engagement story. We really prayed about marriage, but weren't really getting a lot of go ahead from my family. Eventually, out of frustration, I said "Baby! Can't we just ask God for a date??". We asked, he answered. June 9th. We didn't have an engagement ring, John was in Cali, but we went for it. I kept reassuring John I didn't need a ring, but when he came home for a quick break, he got down on one knee in the Maitland Art Center courtyard and proposed... with a ring that he had had for almost 2.5 years!! (We have been dating 3.5). So romantic *swoon*

And we asked how the wedding planning was coming along: The coolest thing about our wedding, is the fact that we have really been patient, trying to see where the "right" places are, and the "right" dresses. Things that people said couldn't happen, have. I was told that cancellations never happen at Lake Parker (where we wanted to get married), lo and behold, four weeks out, it's available. The dress wasn't supposed to come in until June 6th. It's already arrived. Our honeymoon spot is ideal.

We are going for a metal, wood, stone look, accompanied with bright fabrics, and burlap. The girls are carrying metal flowers, I am carrying a bouquet of dried flowers that John has given me over the years up the aisle, then replacing it with brand new flowers on the way back down. We are having worship at our ceremony, and a nontraditional feel mixed with the norms of any wedding. We have Jones sodas as our favors, personalized. And who knows what else! We are having a wonderful friend and coordinator, Trisha Weinrich help us, and she has helped capture that vision. Not only that, but we have the best photographer that a couple could ask for - one who helped us relax, and show love to each other as naturally as possible for lasting pics!

Congratulations and best wishes to you both! And our thanks to Jordan Weiland for sharing this lovely session and story with us.

LOCATION/VENDOR INFORMATION:

Location: Lake Parker Park, Lakeland | Photography: Jordan Weiland Photography | Submission: Two Bright Lights

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The Friday Fresh Squeeze

Well, SunFest has come and gone, the last crazy busy month of wedding season is in full swing, and the days are starting to be just a little warmer than I'd like... guess that means summer is here in South Florida! In a little over a week, we'll be in the Keys for a little R&R, but also for some "work" - meeting and reconnecting with some of our favorite wedding vendors, and enjoying the ambiance at Morada Bay. Yes, we do love what we do. To all the happy couples getting married this weekend and all the talented pros making the magic happen, congrats and best wishes! Happy Friday and enjoy the Fresh Squeeze.

WHAT WE'RE LOVING THIS WEEK

I'm in love with the chic simplicity of this elegant beach wedding at the Four Seasons Palm Beach by Captured Photography by Jenny. "Ocean Views... Pink Peonies... Candlelight"? I know Becca would approve.

And how great is all the inspiration in Four Seasons Magazine? Such a perfect resource if you're thinking of tying the knot at one of their gorgeous resorts!

Did you catch the two seriously lovely weddings by South Florida talents featured on SMP Florida this week? An elegantly shabby chic affair at the Palms, and a glamorous stunner at the Hyatt Regency Pier Sixty-Six... both are just too pretty.

I love love love this rustic/elegant yellow and green inspiration shoot - the fun chalkboard-inspired placemats and the rosemary wreath escort cards are my faves.

Such beautiful light and a beautiful couple in this Post Card Inn wedding.

Nothing inspires me more than bold design choices and modern typography. Yup, this is definitely my new wedding crush.

What a gorgeous historic venue! Love how the romantic pink & gray palette contrasted with the architecture so perfectly.

The heirloom feel of these stunning photos at Blackberry Farm took my breath away.

Becca shared her current faves & addictions on the It List last week... mmm, cupcakes.

HAPPENINGS & EVENTS

Carolina Herrera Bridal Trunk Show

Looking for a gown? I can't think of a better way to enjoy the hunt than at the stunning Carolina Herrera boutique in Bal Harbour. They'll be debuting their Spring 2013 bridal trunk show on May 27th and 28th - contact Lauren for an appointment and get ready to be wowed.

WELCOME TO OUR NEW SPONSOR!

We're happy to welcome FCN Photography, the lovely talent behind Wednesday's Garden Daydreams inspiration shoot, to the fold.

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Wed: Sara & Jason at Cheeca Lodge

Party of 12 please? Yes, 12! When I received Sara and Jason's wedding from Daniel Lateulade it was a good reminder to me about what the importance of what marriage is. When the couple thought about planning their big day, all they could envision was their closest family and friends with them. Sometimes we find that the planning of the wedding, the flowers and the cake and the discussions over whether to have personalized cocktail napkins or not, get us lost in the meaning of what the day truly is. Sara and Jason stuck to their nearest and dearest to make their weekend a truly memorable intimate day. Thank you for sharing your beautiful day with us!

From the Bride: We both have very large families and we really wanted an intimate wedding. For both Jason and I, it was more about saying our vows in front of the people we loved, than having a big party. It was very difficult to keep the guest list short without offending any of our relatives. This is why we eventually decided on immediate family only. It was the greatest decision we made. The weekend was absolutely perfect. Our new families were really able to spent time together and enjoy each moment.

The reason we chose Cheeca Lodge is that we often drive down to Islamorada and Key Largo on the weekends to dive. Several months before we were engaged, Jason took to me dinner at Cheeca lodge. The food was amazing and we both loved the ambience. Months later we returned with my family to celebrate our engagement and say goodbye to my brother before he went to the military. Jason and I walked out on the sand to watch another wedding down the beach and he told me that this is where he had pictured us saying our vows to each other when we had come so many months earlier. We looked around at other places but always ended up right back at Cheeca lodge.

Jason and I grew up around the corner from each other. We went to the same elementary and middle schools and he ending up becoming one of my older brother Ghen's closest friends. Being 5 years younger, I was always viewed as "Ghen's little sister" and completely off limits. I was 12 years old sitting at my parents kitchen table when I developed my first crush. My brother was throwing a pool party and I spent the day starring out the window at teenage Jason. Little did I know that 16 years later Jason would me my husband.

My mother's family has a house in upstate NY on Hunter mountain. It has been in our family for over a hundred years. I spent every summer and winter vacation of my childhood there. My great grandmother lived there until she passed at 100 yrs old. She was one of the most amazing and inspirational women I have ever met. My family has decided to sell the house and I wanted Jason to see it before it was sold. We went for a vacation through New England May 2011. Jason proposed to me hiking in the woods behind our house in the same spot my grandmother and great grandmother were both engaged. He had no idea at the time that it was the same place, it just felt right to him. Absolutely perfect.

Sandy Espinosa from Twenty7Events was incredible. She helped us to realize exactly what we wanted in our perfect day. If it wasn't for her, we probably would still be in the wedding planning phase. Sandy introduced us to Daniel Lateulade. He has an incredible eye for capturing moments. He was an absolute pleasure to work with and we adore our photographs. He really did an amazing job telling our story.

VENUE/VENDOR INFORMATION:

Ceremony & Reception Venue: Cheeca Lodge & Spa | Photography: Daniel Lateulade | Event Coordination: Twenty7Events | Floral Design: Ines Naftali | Hair Styling & Makeup: Medusa's Mane | Musician: Carlos Abanto

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